a dad told

in the cameron morning, when i hav my breakfast and my dad is sitting beside, we talk for some while, reading to him the chinese msg and then we hav a small talk about how to earn money and i start telling we should thick up our face when dealing with ppl, and he said very true, u muz hou mian pi, cannot shy and i think this is what my brother not so good at coz he only hou mian pi to family and not to outsiders, thats why he is still not so good in makin business like my dad. den i told him, i oso hav to hou mian pi so that i can earn kon lou mee for him. den after that, he told me hav to 忍 , this one sensing me not only in business i can feel that, he wants to tell me to yan at home. this one i juz listen and think not evrything one aspect do that will do, is u yan too much, the opponent(john) will 得寸进尺 coz he is this person.i juz smile back and said "o"